Me? Boundary problems
Is there something about me that asks for someone to pour their heart out to me?
C suggests that there is. He may be right. I have students IN CLASS saying things that take most people 10 years of therapy and dead parents to say. It seems that I may have some boundary issues.
Not really a surprise.
It has always been true that friends and family say that I am easy to talk to. I've always liked that. But, when class time is interrupted for a "therapy session," I have to ask myself if I might be doing something wrong.
It has never happened at work before, which makes me wonder about place and time. But obviously I have to figure out how to put up walls -- at least enough to get through a single class discussion.
C suggests that there is. He may be right. I have students IN CLASS saying things that take most people 10 years of therapy and dead parents to say. It seems that I may have some boundary issues.
Not really a surprise.
It has always been true that friends and family say that I am easy to talk to. I've always liked that. But, when class time is interrupted for a "therapy session," I have to ask myself if I might be doing something wrong.
It has never happened at work before, which makes me wonder about place and time. But obviously I have to figure out how to put up walls -- at least enough to get through a single class discussion.
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